The One Who Got Away

You date and get into relationships only to get attached, thinking that nothing can tear you apart. You share dreams and aspirations, you plan your future together. But there comes an unanticipated change. The person whom you’ve shared your life with has left with no traces. No warning. No explanation. You look back on the…

The Just-World Belief System

Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? Do you believe you reap what you sow? Or maybe, what goes around comes around? Such figures of speech, that suggest inevitable retaliation, are part of a just-world belief system. Those who have been raised in a religious context, or are aware of it, understand that…

What it Means to Be Happy

If there’s something that we all have in common as humans, it’s our search for happiness. We go above and beyond to make sure we reach that point where we can finally say that we’re happy. But in most cases, we do not even know what that even means. There is a common misconception that…

Overview: ADHD in Children

Just because a child cannot sit still, it does not mean he or she suffers from ADHD. In fact, children are expected to have bundles of energy and perhaps a little rebellious. However, concern is raised when a child’s behavior disrupts his daily life. A typical scenario at home would be continuously bouncing around the…

Understanding Therapy

After a thorough conversation about his inability to understand why he doesn’t feel connected to his partner three years into the relationship, I suggested that he considers seeing a therapist. He paused, took a minute to gather his thoughts. “Do I look like I’m mentally ill?”, he scoffed. Clearly, he did not understand what therapy…

In Love With a Feeler

Originally posted on A Year of Simple:
I recently started a relationship with someone who is very much a ‘feeler’ rather than a ‘thinker’. It took me a few heated, drama-filled arguments with my new partner to figure out why we kept going around in circles, both seemingly unable to comprehend the other person’s point…